I was wrong.
Once upon a time, I thought I had the job I'd always wanted. I thought I was happy. I thought I was doing what the Lord intended for me.
I was wrong.
The other day, my young colleague, Alex, and I were discussing a brochure we were working on. We discovered that both of us thought about going into marketing when we were in high school. How things change.
These days, the most challenging part of being a writer for me is promoting and marketing my books. Dear Reader, it's absolutely painful for me! It's not that I don't believe what and who I write for; I'm passionate about both.
Perhaps not passionate enough.
Lord, I didn't ask for this job, you know. I was out there watching sheep, minding my own business. Are you sure I'm the right guy for the job? Public speaking definitely isn't on my resume.
1 Listen to this, Israel. God is calling you to account—and I mean all of you, everyone connected with the family that he delivered out of Egypt. Listen!
Last week, Dear Reader, I told you that transparency is a challenge for me. Okay, not exactly a challenge, more like downright hard. Committing to weekly updates on Jubilee's progress has forced me out of my hermit's cave.
Well, here goes.
What are your plans for this summer, Dear Reader? An exciting foreign city? Home improvements? Perhaps taking a class or two. Maybe it's a "staycation". Whatever it is, I think Jesus wants us to take Him along.
He said to them, “Go everywhere in the world. Tell the Good News to everyone.
Two weeks ago I had my knee replaced. Way back in December, when I scheduled the surgery, my surgeon said to plan on taking the summer for rehab. So, here I am, reflecting from my rehab room.
Dear Readers, I need your help, and trust me, it's not easy to ask. It means being transparent enough to admit fear and weakness. It means trusting and obeying in a whole new way.
Such a large crowd of witnesses is all around us! So we must get rid of everything that slows us down, especially the sin that just won’t let go. And we must be determined to run the race that is ahead of us.
Way back in the last century, Daddy, Buddy (my older brother), and I went fishing a few times. I don't remember us catching many fish. What I do remember is that Buddy never could put a worm on his hook, or take the rare fish off of his hook.
Dear Reader, lately I've been reading more and more about the effect of our words. I know, not a new topic. But one thing has added to my thinking, and it's the effects of our words, good and not so good, on ourselves. Will you join me in digging a little deeper?
My first real job, back in the last century, was at K-Mart. Clerks were taught the acronym, "TYSAK", during orientation. "Thank You for Shopping at KMart!" It was so important to managers that every register had it on two stickers.
Pardon me while I rant for a minute.
Also back in the last century, Tom and I met in Sunday School. (Just call us Mr. and Mrs. BORING!) Our teacher was a retired school teacher, Mrs. Bengston. As a public school teacher, Mrs. Bengston taught "Deportment".
What do you think? Maybe we should add Deportment back into schools' curriculum. Don't worry, Dear Reader, I'm not advocating for a bunch of little Miss Prissy Britches, just a little more courtesy.
Growing up, we were taught to say "Yes, Mam" and "No, Mam", "Please", and "Thank you". No excuses for no manners. I thought I understood what a treasure courtesy is. These guys taught me that courtesy should be more than lip service.
Peter and Paul knew that courtesy and kindness are essential for spreading the gospel.
Through thick and thin, keep your hearts at attention, in adoration before Christ, your Master. Be ready to speak up and tell anyone who asks why you’re living the way you are, and always with the utmost courtesy.
The group of middle school guys had made and been affected by a lot of mistakes and misunderstandings. Courtesy and kindness had been in short supply for them. Who was I to try and teach them deportment of all things? How could I possibly reach kids like Mario?
A very wise colleague at our alternative school told me that the most important commodity for our students was relationships. She also cautioned me that their radars could detect a "poser" at fifty feet.
These guys were my students for spring semester. Some days it was hard showing up, listening to stories that broke my heart, buying school lunches for hungry kids. My colleague's words echoed in my brain, mingled with TYSAK, and Mama's lessons in good manners.
Our relationship seemed to start when I really began paying attention. Once in a while, we learned about American History, including the Boston Tea Party.
My friend, Mario, was 15 and in 6th grade. Reading and writing? Not so much. But what an artist! Another colleague suggested that Mario's assessments be illustrations. Bingo!
And just look where that first step took us!
Dear Reader, please know this is not a criticism. I don't doubt your manners in the least. I'm preaching to myself. Not for my lack of courtesy TO others, but for not expecting courtesy FROM others for fear that they may not like me.
More and more I think perhaps the second best thing I can teach my granddaughters and students is the expectation of courtesy, given and received, in their daily lives. (The first is the saving grace of Jesus Christ.)
Last weekend, Mary and I were on a day trip to a mother/daughter luncheon. With Gracie napping, and Annalyn absorbed in her latest book in the backseat, we had about a hundred miles to chat. Precious time, indeed!
Among 1001 topics, we talked about (spring) cleaning projects. Tom and I learned years ago that cleaning out a closet can lead to any number of DIY home improvements. Has that ever happened to you?
You naively think you're going to take a few minutes to straighten the towels in the linen closet. Several weekends and hundred dollars later, you're knee deep in remodeling the bathroom.
But sometimes things need to be shaken up a bit.
Earlier this spring, Mary and I shared a "business" lunch. During salads and conversation, Mary talked about a speaker she'd heard last fall challenging the audience to focus their writing. A bell started ringing quietly in my head.
So, Dear Reader, after four months of recentering, I've come to some conclusions:
Bottom line? A new blog title and background. Same goals: share faith, a little fun, and encouragement, a.k.a. my words for His glory.
10 All living things shall thank you, Lord, and your people will bless you. 11 They will talk together about the glory of your kingdom and mention examples of your power. 12 They will tell about your miracles and about the majesty and glory of your reign.
I hope you continue top stop by for "My Big Mouth" on Mondays, and a new series starting on Thursdays beginning in June. On Sundays, we'll continue to take a moment to reflect on blessings of waiting.
What does spring cleaning look like to you, Dear Reader? Any "out with the old, and in with the new" going on in your world?
Dear Reader, thank you for joining me on the road to the cross. My heart leaps to share the old, old story that remains new. Please accept my humble accounting of the treacherous path Jesus and His followers took to the cross, and gloriously beyond.
I saw Him. I touched the nail holes in His hands, touched the wound in His side.
26 Eight days later, his disciples were again in the room. This time Thomas was with them. Jesus came through the locked doors, stood among them, and said, “Peace to you.”
He traded my arrogance, my skepticism for peace and acceptance. He gave me hope.
And yet, we seemed to be drawn back to the water? Were we reckless? Perhaps searching for the familiar when everything around us seemed to have turned upside down, and inside out?
2 Simon Peter, Thomas called the Twin, Nathan′a-el of Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zeb′edee, and two others of his disciples were together. 3 Simon Peter said to them, “I am going fishing.” They said to him, “We will go with you.” They went out and got into the boat; but that night they caught nothing.
How fruitless our labors! A full night of exhausting work, and for what? Is the Master still trying to teach us? Is our work for nothing unless He is the center of it?
4 Early the next morning Jesus stood on the shore. But the followers did not know that it was Jesus. 5 Then he said to them, “Friends, have you caught any fish?”
Peter and Andrew still talk about another day when they went fishing. The day the Master called them.
My spirit mourns for not believing, and leaps at the Savior's forgiveness and provision. Just as our Heavenly Father assured Joshua when our fathers stood on the edge of the Promised Land, our Savior beckons us to more. Are we standing on the verge of a new Promised Land?
"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; be not frightened, neither be dismayed; for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
He has not left us afraid, or hungry. Our Master has provided all we may ever need.
12 Jesus said to them, “Come and eat.” None of the followers dared ask him, “Who are you?” They knew it was the Lord. 13 Jesus came and took the bread and gave it to them. He also gave them the fish.
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